erzats wrote:While being white hasn't really stopped you from doing anything, has it?
You mean besides barring me from getting a job with the government, putting me on the bottom of the heap for financial aid for higher education, and limiting my freedom of speech? Nope..has not stopped me from anything then.
There are obvious within-skin-color analogies as well (Germany, Holocaust). I'm continuously amazed that you seem to recognize no structural disadvantages to certain peoples even though such practices are documented throughout history and are very widespread today. People making these arguments, endlessly dragging their feet, help to keep us in the cultural stone age. And it's all, basically, done to maintain whitey's advantage.
Not really interested in arguing this. I am not in the 'cultural stone age' and nor do I have an agenda to maintain whitey's advantage.
Obviously, black people in Ghana, for example, aren't marching around touting their race. Likewise some mexicans in their country (although there are indigenous/spanish conflicts galore) . It's done here because those races, in this country, often get the shaft so being proud of ones heritage is a way of regaining some dignity.
Don't argue that at all. in fact I support it, I would just like to have the same freedom without being labeled a racist.
Whether you realized it or not, when you climbed on top of the pyramid of wealth (that you and I are perched upon), you were meant to be humble to that fact rather than spitting in its face and begging that someone recognize how awesome you and your Harley riding friends are (or whatever element of "white culture" it is that you are proud of). We don't get to wave our white pride flags because everyone can already see our white @sses on top of the heap.
First off, whatever heap I am on top of was only achieved by scrapping, clawing, fighting, and climbing. So put the emphasis on 'climbing' there my friend because this pimpness was not effing handed to me or mine. I have a 10th grade education an umbilical hernia, a chipped tooth and a passion. No trust fund babies in my entire lineage. Am I to believe that I am only perched here because I am white? Where is the respect for my hard work? Where is MY dignity? f@#K...if I had known that all I had to do was be white to get to where I am at then why the hell did I bother working so hard? Ten years ago I had nothing, lived on a couch at a friends house and rode a bicycle 15 miles to work and back every day. I worked in a freezer at night pulling orders and packing them on pallets in a freezer that ran about -10f and I often did not get home from work in the morning until the sun was much higher. My daughter lived with her junkie mom and I was in ruins. And you want to sit there and tell me that my success was effing handed tome because I am white? Are you serious? How dare you take away all of my sweat, my tears, my heart ache back ache and scars on my body and declare that none of it mattered because I am white.
And humble? You don't think I am humble about where it is I live? You do not think I have a reverent appreciation of it? I may talk a lot of shite, but what those around here don't know is that I am humble about everything in my life and that I fall to my knees in true gratefulness every day. However that is between me and my idea of God.
To me, a big part of being white in the USA (especially as a male) is that I was handed a very wide open slate to work with. I recognize this in almost everything that I do. It's made blatantly clear to me daily that this advantage is huge and has allowed me a very comfortable life in the grand scheme of things. My culture? I know about my heritage. There are traditions that my family holds albeit weak ones. Culture? I treat people fairly and right to the best of my ability. I aim to make no distinction between folks in how I treat them. I listen to white people music. Uuuuuh. Is that what you mean? I was hoping that Wilbur would inform us what white culture is.
Not sure I could describe my idea of 'white culture'. Of course my heritage is wonderful in my eyes. Where I truly come from. My family, our history. Good and bad. I enjoy it greatly. But white culture...? Eh....not so sure I even know what that is. Maybe there really isn't one. Maybe it has been diluted and diversified to a point beyond recognition. Maybe ever since I was a child i was told how wrong 'we' are for being white and how we do not matter as much. Same thing we have been told as males all of our lives too. Washed out, diluted, and emasculated. Maybe that is (sadly) about as close of a definition you can get for a 'culture' concerning the white male in this country.
I don't see as much in color as most of those that oppose me, however I am the racist because I am white.
A 'person of color' discriminates against a white and it is termed 'reverse racism', as if it were to be that racism can only go in one direction. But that is so illogical. In my mind, there is only racism. No forward, reverse, or other direction. Racism is racism no matter who the perpetrator or victim is and is completely independent of their color.
Same goes for sexism.
The white heterosexual male is not a manifestation of evil or hate though like any other segment of any society we are capable of being so, but so is everyone else.
I am proud to be white.
I am proud to be male.
I am proud to be heterosexual.
Do I care if you are not white?
Do I care if you are not male?
Do I care if you are not heterosexual?
Nope.
So why would anyone take exception with me being what I am? Where are my rights to be who/what I am? Where are my 40 acres and a mule?
Your electric car runs on coal. Think about it....