wanty wrote:planning on going in early august right after i get hitched..... She wants sandy beaches......i want surf...... im not that good. ........ What are some general rules of thumb......
Giver her the sandy beaches.
Forget the surfing.
Do most of whatever she tells you, but do it on your schedule.
There may be a fine line between her asking you or her telling you to do something but understand that line is only recognized by you.
Put the seat down every time.
Keep your crap out of sight in the house.
Keep her crap out of the garage.
Put your dirty clothes in the hamper.
Realize her clothes will be laying on the bed each day.
Learn to rake.
Make efforts to show her that she means something to you at random times throughout the year but also understand it will not get you out of Valentines obligations.
The toilet paper rolls over the top, not under from behind and yes you are expected to change it when it gets low, not wait until it is out and, God forbid, she has to make the duck walk of shame.
Understand that the unspoken is more powerful than the spoken word every single time.
Date night at least monthly.
Make an effort to secure time for the two of you, you will harvest twice as much personal time this way. Don't do it and you will get none.
Be direct and honest, except when you are wrong, then hang your head and apologize, and since you will be wrong 99% of the time forget the direct and honest part.
Whatever it is she wants you to shave...shave it. It will be reciprocated.
Her friends are smart, caring, sophisticated.
Your friends are stupid, alcoholic, and probably smell.
Cut your toenails.
Do not cut your toenails anywhere near the living room.
Men get haircuts.
Wives go to the hairdresser for advice, counseling, and style.
You are now the second most important person in her life.
You are also now the second most important person in
your life.
Real estate and sex....get a lot while you are young.
Good luck.
Your electric car runs on coal. Think about it....